channeling her inner-princess...like the gurls above her focus is no longer about living with male privilege but rather about being the gurl she has become...
the powers that be always have a vested interest in maintaining the status quo... Women have taken it upon themselves to have more control over the narrative while taking down the patriarchy when given the opportunity...
About three-in-ten men say women’s gains have come at the expense of men...
the name of the feminist website says so much... 'what will it take'.
It’s time we dismantle the injustice at the heart of the system. Think about how the concept of gender and gender roles shape our lives. How do they impact you and your peers, your family? What does patriarchy mean to youth today? How does patriarchy affect transgender people and those who hold fluid identities that are subject to gender-based violence? If you view gender differently than you’ve previously been taught to see it, how do you think your worldview will change?
In reality the patriarchy is a system that encompasses a way of thinking that places men above women and devalues the feminine, while overvaluing the masculine. It has been in place for millennia and is even present in origin stories. For example, in the popular Bible story of Adam and Eve, not only is Adam created first, but everything is blamed on Eve when things go sideways.
...links patriarchy with racism and states that, “Entitlement, intolerance, homophobia, misogyny, aggression, and sexual violence inside and outside marginalized communities are the antisocial behaviors that patriarchal systems create. give the next generation more examples of strong and diverse women."
when Women are the storytellers the human story changes....
I’ve come to believe that the edifice of patriarchy rests upon a set of six core pillars. Without these, it cannot stand.
The denial of women’s capacity for a strong autonomous self.
The denial of men’s capacity for relational connection.
The inability to repair harm in a relationship.
Our disconnection from our own bodies, and our lack of attunement to what we’re feeling (emotionally and physically).
The ideology of individualism: the notion that humans are individuals and exist in relationship to others and the world through competition, hierarchy, domination, and control.
6.The artificial separation of human qualities into the rigid binary of “masculine” and “feminine”, associated with men and women respectively.
How to dismantle the outdated system...
Transcending the gender binary
It’s not happening fast enough or widely enough, but it’s happening, and it’s irreversible. The gender binary is eroding under the weight of its contradictions, thanks in large part to sustained activism on the part of the LGBT movement, and the trans movement in particular.Only through the abolition of gender can we achieve true liberation.
Women are speaking up...This to me is an important part of what #MeToo is all about. It’s about finally being heard.Many of the movements that swept the world in 2019 were led by women; women claiming their power, their voice, their rights. if you’re a woman: continue to trust yourself. in work refuse to settle for patriarchal norms. have a growing recognition that sex life under patriarchy (heterosexual sex in particular) sucks
the power of femininity is too strong ...she's forgone the path to manhood instead has become a 'camming-gurl'...
the power of estrogen is too strong... it feels so nice having boobies...another one who has dismissed mascuinity to become a camming gurl....
the Female Led factor.... the leash and collar in bringing down the patriarchy...
the collared DLC's alyssa...
The power of the leash. It’s a slender thread that binds not only the charmingly obedient man to his superior woman but also, symbolically, the old ways to the new.
the collared DLCs maria...
We’re discussing a man eager to yield to your compelling authority. He’s not simply following you; he’s tethered to you, bound by a link as strong as your wit and captivating as your charm. Leashing, dear readers, is the ultimate declaration of dominance and submission.
the collared DLC's alesandra...
it’s powerful, it’s intimate, and it’s tantalisingly provocative. Every leash tug is a statement, a physical embodiment of the woman’s control over her submissive man
the leash serves as a tangible thread connecting the dominant and the submissive. It’s as much about the psychological implications as it is about the physical – the leash is a constant reminder of his place and your control.
training him to respond to the leash is a delightful challenge. After all, it’s not merely about leading him around like an obedient pet. Oh, no, darling. It’s about teaching him to anticipate your moves, to move in sync with your stride, to respond to the subtlest tug, and to dance to the tune of your command.
A simple phrase such as, “Follow me, love” or “Stay close, darling” with a gentle tug should suffice to initiate movement. And if he ever strays or forgets his position, a firm “Heel, dear” paired with a stronger pull can correct his actions. Remember, while dominance is about asserting authority, it is also about acknowledging and appreciating obedience.
the leash is not just a symbol of control but also a symbol of trust. It’s a testament to his willingness to submit and your leadership capability.
we'll close with those that are no longer men promoting male privilege...
what a darling....peace, alyssa
bonus vintage pic: for tara...
thanks for mthinking of mr alyssa another great post! 😘