centuries ago ships sailed based on the course charted by a nautical tool called a sexton....if the piece was off by just a 'small' fraction the crew would find themselves 100's of miles off course...far away from their original port of call destination...
Patriarchal expectations are limiting....
They force people to be more like a norm that serves an old way of thinking and being. And this old way of thinking and being restricts individuals from flourishing.
as always this post will come thru the filter of transitioning...in order to create a more fulfilling life as a transwoman while serving Womankind...
Gynarchy is a way of life that encompasses personal, political, and social relationships. It is the radical claim that women are natural leaders and rulers, and men once surrendered can find unmatched fulfillment in supporting, serving, and pleasing them.
The woman who desires dominating her male partner must create space in her life to explore within, get in touch with her power and confidence.
fact: studies have determined as a whole Women today are larger and stronger and more intelligent then they were decades earlier.
Women have the power to transform men, they simply need to exert it.
What if men surrendered to the natural authority of women? The core principles of Gynarchy come together to create a shift in how women wield power. The Feminine is active, not passive or submissive. She is playful, cyclical, and creative. As every culture knew at some point in their history, She is the origin of the Universe. once men surrender they can see the world through the Gynarchist lens.
from the FLR book...."a 'strap on' can have huge psychological effects as well as physical. It can really enhance the D/s dynamic because its the perfect tool for role reversal.
When a strap on is combined with chastity, some real magic can happen between partners. The longer he is chaste, the more likely he is to crave some sort of anal play, as his prostate gets bigger and more sensitive, craving any kind of stimulation."
a strap-on can be so much fun. He either craves it, or it is humiliating to him, or both!
This is perfect for a domme as well, as she gets to discover the power of having a penis between her legs, and his moans of pleasure or discomfort, as she begins to thrust into him.
This alone, can be an extremely high level of power exchange and very erotic for her. She can take him with her strap-on until he is whimpering horny and deep in sub space.
The strap-on is much more fun than simply just bending him over, there are many ways in which a strap-on can be used, which can make it a symbol of her dominance over him. Often, a strap-on is bigger than his penis, and she can tease him about that, saying her cock is bigger than his, while taking him with it.
She could even go so far as to name her cock, and have her sub respect it, by cleaning it after use. Or sucking it to lube it up. Just looking down into his eyes can give both partners a power exchange rush that creates a strong erotic charge. Once she has named her strap-on, her submissive will have to worship it in the same way he worships her body, because it’s her cock. The psychological effects this can have, can send him deep into subspace, and she can keep him there.
ordering him to get the strap on, and bend over on command, can be a powerful technique. Taking him with it often, even when he’s not in the mood, will help him adjust his behavior to understand, it’s not his bum, it’s hers. His resistance to it, will soon drop away, and the strap on will become a symbol of her power.
Perhaps eventually, it may be the only way he is allowed to cum. This can be common if she likes to feminize him, he can literally become the female in the relationship, and cum from anal only, while still caged.
as the patriarchy falls from its perch....beneath the veneer of alpha-maleness the submissive male is emerging... here are some pieces on Female dominants and male submissives that one wouldn't have seen 20, 30 years ago...
once the slave wears his owner’s collar around his neck, he’s considered “collared” or property belonging to his Mistress.There is often a collaring ceremony to formalize the arrangement, in the way a conventional wedding celebrates a marriage. In strict households, collared slaves can be attached to a chain and tethered to a ring on the wall. Some are not allowed to sit on the furniture
For many male slaves, being completely hairless is a point of pride, because their owners prefer the hair-free look. Some owners marry their slaves. it doesn’t change the couple’s dynamic. Equality does not exist in consensual slavery
The average lifestyle Domme is over 40: It can take decades before Women recognize and act on their natural dominance, then learn to sexualize it. A Domme will demand a sub obeys Her. A Domme’s attitude is what attracts a sub — and bold bitchiness knows no boundaries.
profound transformation can be seen in the small details...
in my case Dominatrix Camille wanted a picture of me in panties and a chastity cage...it came during the first serious discussion we had.... at the time it seemed like such a small request...
within 3 weeks of sending that photo i was posing for Her in a full set of intimate wear... my nails were done, my hair was styled and my make-up gave me the pretty look of what was to be the start of my transgender journey.
She had decided i was to become Her slave...the next day i was instructed to log into tvChix where i'd discover i had a page...
it flew under the banner of DarkLady's - alyssa.....from the day forward She has treated me as a feminine being...the name alyssa has burrowed its way into my psyche....
Mistress has removed masculine-based habuitual thought proecesses ...until all that remains is a feminine-centric way of thinking....i honestly cant go a single day without thinking about becoming a transwoman...
told to stop lifting weights weights and work on toning and flexibility....as part of being sexually reoriented...She's structured my thinking to come from a purely submissive-feminine sense of being....to admire women while having them and other t-girls strictly as platonic girlfriends....to become a bride and a wife... to be sexually submissive...to men.... all these viewpoints were being reinforced until they've become part of my consciousness and way of being....
all thanks to Mistress DLC these days when i see t-girl brides i feel a connection...
we'll close out the posts on dismantling the patriarchy with this.... peace, alyssa
a great series alyssa 😘