before meeting Ms. Camille 'alyssa' had never seen a chastity cage in person much less owned one. among the items i was instructed to purchase when we first began my journey to the Lady pond was a chastity cage and small padlock. (where would we all be without the behemoth amazon? told i would answer to the name alyssa below is one of the 1st pictures i sent in.
i now have 3---the latest generation chastity cage has evolved to the point the locking mechanism is self-contained within the restrictive piece. it gives off a more smooth flat-front look.). a recent pic from 2 weeks ago.
Dominatrix Camille also wanted me to select a favorite perfume that would be used as my signature fragrance. i chose Estee Lauder's 'Modern Muse'. applied daily into year 3 the aroma is quite feminine and has been seared into my mind as 'alyssa's scent'.
as part of my education DarkLady Camille (DLC) has Her gurl keep a narrow trimmed femme-patch on my mound with my gurl-clitty freshly shaved smooth. regular daily moisturizing with skin-softening lotion has developed a desired gentle softness to the area.
a spritz of perfume is next...thus the area between my legs has a delightful, feminine fragrance as the ever-present panties are selected....before that tho i often slip in my anal-plug. the bullet shape butt-plug has a pretty jeweled-tip end. shall we say encouraged i am instructed to wear my chastity frequently (tho not required to have it on at all times).
the look and aroma speaks to the success of a Woman in having Her gurl present a locked chastity cage controlling her gurl-clitty beneath a pair of embroidered-pattern or lace-trim panties with anal plug in behind the slit of the crack.
it acts as a reminder the former male sex-organ has been muted benign while a new area offers an entry-point of sexual gratification.....what once was free to stand tall...at will..no longer does....and now has the look of confinement accompanied by a feminine aroma behind an attractive pair of women's intimate-wear.
emasculating ...yes....feminized-pretty...most certainly...mentally-castrating... profoundly so.....often ill-timed males are use to unleashing the tool that represents masculine sexual-aggression whenever they feel like. while i suppose each is different in alyssa's case that would mean should i even attempt to bed a Woman i would first reveal i'm in panties concealing a locked chastity device on a sweetly fragranced area.
as my Mistress desires i want to point out i am now far too passive and docile to even think about trying to 'pick-up' a sexual partner. the next point to be made is that alyssa has been trained to the dildo and anal-plug...so without ever having to unlock and remove my former male-tool i am vulnerable to being taken and penetrated by a Woman with a strap-on or a man's cock while still wearing my chastity.....just thought i'd point out another category that has alyssa embracing her feminine lifestyle. perhaps the next topic should be the impact of a bullet-plug.
being put in chastity and scenting the area reminds me how much power Mistress DLC has in taking a former male and making a gurl of him.
whatever success i have in becoming a gurl is owed to Mistress DLC...peace, alyssa!
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Sweet Alyssa, I do so enjoy reading your posts. This one is no exception. A chastity cage is a great tool for changing the masculine perspective to a feminine perspective. It is emasculating and mentally castrating and forcefully diminishes the male ego allowing the female ego to emerge and become dominant. Once one accepts that all sorts of wonderful things begin to happen...
I cannot speak for anyone else, though for me this was a turning point. My male self began to recede as the t-gurl began to emerge. Where once I might have tied to fight those feelings I gradually came to accept that what was actually happening was not really a change, rather it was the freeing of what was already there within me from birth. I am a girl and that was how I was meant to live. Where once I would have balked at traditionally feminine tasks, I now revel in performing and completing them.
An anal plug also helps. As you said " being trained to the dildo and anal-plug" makes us "vulnerable to being taken and penetrated by a Woman with a strap-on or a man's cock while still wearing my chastity...." Indeed, after having spent over four months in chastity were the only time I removed it was to bathe and shave left me in a state of craving the feeling of a Woman's strap-on or a man's cock penetrating me.
Yet, there were also other changes in perspective that began to occur. Something as simple as housework now had to be performed en femme. For me, this was (and still is) something I do wearing a chastity cage, butt-plug, and heels. The idea that someone might take notice of my long thin legs and the jeweled plug protruding from my derriere is so erotic. It signals that I am sexually wanton and ready to submit to fulfilling the sexual needs of a Dominant Woman or Man. As a sidebar of sorts, my preference is for a Dominant Woman.
In the future, I think I will add perfume to these rituals. An idea that I find very appealing. Thank you for sharing that!
Kisses,
Amber Rose