i suppose we could make 2 categories...there are those that are pretenders....they just get off on wearing some lingerie...it's not a criticism...
heck i use to do the same just to get my rocks off....
then i met Mistress...who rocked my world...i would add....
those early awkward days are fraught with frustration...what you see isn't the way you really want to look....yet if you stick with it and apply yourself things do begin to change...
your skills improve....there is a more serious undercurrent to your pursuit....
and then it's like a switch goes off...it's that point when you are crossing-over into a feminine world and find yourself wanting to stay there as much as you can....
one morning during the covid-lockdown i found myself in just heels and stockings.... my makeup was on and my hair look stylish....
i was going to put my outfit on yet instead i took to posing even though i was alone...i realized i didn't need the lingerie or clothing...oh i would wear them...but the point is the feminine light within me had been awakened and was burning bright because i felt like what i had become....a feminine being in mind and heart....and body too i suppose...
the confidence grows...the time comes when you know you need to be seen by others outside in public-settings to test yourself....
perhaps you find a friend who you feel a connection with....
you'll likely find your submissiveness taking over....it feel so nice being a bottom....
of course there is the sexual aspect...we all know it helps define a t-girl....
i had to slip a bride pic in
the thought of having mine pierced sends me...
i think about it so much these days...
let your trans flag fly...own it.....celebrate it....peace, alyssa