both the professional Dominatrix and amateur Mistress enjoy displaying their dominance and power by grooming their male protege into a submission.
in the 'Femdom' world 'grooming' is when someone builds a relationship developing trust and emotional connection so the male-initiate can be manipulated to do the bidding of the dominant. most often it involves the person surrendering one's unfettered access to their primary sexual tool.
while the reasons may vary perhaps it's for the sole purpose of making the Female dominant's life easier....
in the initial stages of 'grooming' involves a separation from the outside world. it often helps build a level of obedience that also usually crosses physical boundaries. the manipulation continues thru isolation until they are dependent and more vulnerable to manipulation....in some cases to the point slavery becomes the end goal.
there are 6 stages
1) targeting the selected individual by identifying vulnerability.
2) bonding thru information gathering. creating trust by monitoring the candidate on a regular basis.
3) the dominant fulfilling a need thru specialized attention and affection.
4) controlling access and separation while creating specific one on one sessions.
5) sexualizing the relationship breaking thru previously established physical boundaries. heightening a sense of belief within the initiate that they're a more-sexual being.
6) maintaining control by continued mental and physical conditioning and displays of affection thereby reinforcing a normality to the Dom/sub relationship. reshaping and redefining a proteges sexual self-image.
In todays post what we mean by 'feminine grooming' ...is the creation a t-girl out of a former male by a Dominatrix, a Professional or amateur Mistress or a Domina. it involves the T-girl living in a whole new feminine-centric lifestyle. thus affirming the power and control wielded by the Female dominant. in its own way it is helping to build a more matriarchal-based society. more than ever before males are falling under the influence of Women while learning to live much like they do.
the fact remains there can only be one dominant in any relationship...some Women prefer creating a cuckold out of the partner to show their dominance.
and then there are those Women that want their male turned submissive-trans.... having them live as a pretty t-girl.
what better way is there of showing the power of femininity than to have a male accept it in his life.
obedience established...reinforced thru service to the Woman in his life.
a new focus to life aided by his libido being under the control of his Domina.
the emasculating introduction of feminine-wear...breaking thru previously established boundaries.
decades of being assaulted by the multi-media with images of the female breast has created a sense of worship to them....
pre-femme herbals
months of pueraria mirifica...
body-shot images helping to create the foundation of being feminine...made hairless from the noes down the posing alone helps develop a more objectified girlish mind-set...as the breasts increase in size it will be difficult to hide them...
creating a mind-body connection breast-pumps pulling blood to the area on a regular basis...a practice MIstress DarkLady's gurls are familiar with .....
as alyssa has come to discover nipple-enhancers are also effective
eventually one learns they will be seen as attraction points...
from early stages of 'grooming'...
to the feminine appearance only real breasts bring with...
tools like the strap-on prove valuable...
there was a time back before being groomed by 'her' Mistresses that the Mansion's Tiffany once looked like the male above..
a male being groomed into femininity learns to adapt to spreading his legs...
regular sessions involving penetration hit on a psychic level...in his mind he equates it as having sex like a woman....
in the months ahead being penetrated will drive the desire to be more feminine...
Mistress DarkLady has successfully groomed alyssa to the point the idea of having my own vagina is a genuine possibility...
nurturing a sense of femininity in a male protege begins with stages of emasculation...they link domestication with their conception of being a woman....
it is likely at one time he looked at naked women posing the same way...
with hormones and gender reassignment surgery a male can become a feminine being...
i showed this gurl being groomed yesterday....it becomes a mathematical equation...
put on a feminine grooming regimen and beauty will follow....
it is becoming more common...a young Domina has thoroughly 'groomed' her male protege deep into feminization...whatever male-assertiveness he may have once had has been replaced with a passively docile nature and an appreciation for all things feminine. training her 'gurl' to use a vibrator the youthful Mistress also is acclimating him to the taste of sperm....while it still can be produced.... let's remember female hormones often chemically-castrate a male. She is slipping a 'shell' covering over his clitty...the t-girl will be able to simulate the motions of male-lovemaking without the benefit of feeling Her vagina engulf his clitty in wetness. everyone of their subscribers are able to see how she has groomed her candidate...
just as Dominatrix Camille does with my DLC sisters and i letting her gurl have a social media presence further strengthens the bond between Mistress and t-girl...a cuteness to her clearly she enjoys having pretty breasts and a small clitty. the femininity taking hold female hormones overtaking her endocrine network it is likely she'll be viewed as a pretty plaything in the days ahead...
shaved smooth a pink chastity cage has the male protege being trained to the Woman's vagina....dieting n hormones will help reshape the figure into a more feminine appearance...while She continues to conditioning his mind to accept deeper levels of feminization...
mirror time shows the contrast of what he once was to what he is becoming...Mistress Camille has all her gurls do it...alyssa has 3 different mirrors in my femininely appointed bedroom..i know it is a feminine trait....but i find myself staring at my image constantly wondering what else i can do to make myself look prettier......doing the forum regularly has me exposed to an extraordinary amount of t-girls...(alyssa thinks in Her wisdom perhaps that is part of Mistress Darklady's over all plan for me.)..i often feel my femininity spiking as a result...so i do like taking my tabs of femme-herbals at those times while looking into the mirror...
another young 20-something Domme....having groomed her former boyfriend...
muting male toxins hormones in one's 20's give a better bang for your buck...
a confident look on the youthful MIstress's face..a touch of feminine whimsy wearing the wide-patterned fishnets has the t-girl in the competent hands of her Domina...male aggressiveness replaced with a softer gentle prettiness....
the breast development stunning...the need to clutch at them strong...edging can be so fun..even when the female hormones have taken away rock-solid hardness replacing it with a semi-flaccid state...note the movement of the anal-plug sliding in and out...the internal sensations amazing it is further linking sexual arousal with penetration...the t-girl is just where She wants 'her'...in the palm of the Mistress's hand...
how do i know Mistress is grooming me?...because i want more of it...peace, alyssa