the Dominatrix: it's no secret that She is grooming Her male protege. for some it means male-submission to the point they become Her BDSM slave. but some Mistresses like carrying it further. they enjoy transforming a male into a t-girl just to show their power. once brought to live as a transwoman they are required to take on 'new' roles... that society demands of feminine beings.
one of those feminine roles is the traditional path of becoming a bride and a wife...or put another way they'll no longer be a husband in a marriage relationship.
here's a lovely example of a former husband who has been groomed to take on the role of being a bride and wife...
Dominatrix Camille has some of Her gurls that are married to Women. She has no issue with that. in fact being a life-long lesbian Mistress gets it.
below is an example of such. one Woman in a tux note the Feminine-centric ceremony with a female minister overseeing the procedings.
here's another if i have it right....
speaking for myself i realized shortly after being accepted by Dominatrix Camille She had designs on grooming me to become a wife.
from building up my breast tissue
to being trained to accept the chastity cage...along with more ... so much more
everything was being done with the goal of me finding a dominant man who would want to marry me.
here are some other former husbands...
it's easy to characturize BDSM MIstresses as being just about bull-whips and wooden paddles...
their true talents lay in creating a entirely new persona.... to change the man's lifestyle from being a husband into that of a married Woman speaks volumes as to a Dominatrix's skill-set....
i came across this and couldn't help yet think it is quite similar to what Mistress DarkLady does with her former men....
here's a brief snippet...
The story of my husband's feminization and our wife led marriage in his own words.
He explains his feelings, concerns and reservations about my encouraged feminization within our Female Led Marriage. alice explains what 'she' likes and what she doesn't enjoy so much about being pushed and prodded into increasingly femininity, submission and humiliation.
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a recent pic of alice
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The key point is that the relationship started as a vanilla one through mutual attraction Take on submissive tasks and make her the queen. Feminisation may then develop once the wife is being treated as the most important person or the male becomes the typical submissive around the home. I led the gradual feminisation of a sometimes surprised and reluctant husband.
In my case, I knew exactly what was in it for us when I started Alice’s feminisation, but Alice didn’t realise so I had to show her the benefits of an FLR and feminisation. Teach her that she will need be a feminine friend to her Mistress. she should learn to be more sensitive and do housewife chores for her Mistress. show them the benefits of being a female but as a submissive one who does what you tell her to do
Even though you need to be loving and persuasive with him, you will also need to constantly monitor things. You will need to ensure he dresses and acts appropriately: appropriately means feminine. Early on in the feminisation process you should throw away his pyjamas and male underwear. Put him into panties/knickers and nighties as soon as possible From a base of female underwear and nighties, you can start to gradually increase his feminisation. If your husband has good hair, it’s now the time to get him to grow it too. These are all easy steps you can apply lovingly. You will also have him shave his legs and chest as soon as possible, especially as you’ll want him in skirts and dresses as body hair is unattractive
Once you have decided to feminise him and taken the first few steps, you have to get him into skirts. Do not delay this step as this is the biggest one and when he accepts something utterly feminine, there is no going back. It’s then merely a case of how far you can take him
Give him lots of compliments associated with the word girl... 'you're a prety girl'... and so on. Start calling him a girl during sex games and then gradually bring it into everyday use along with a feminine proper name
...here is a reply from one of the readers of Lady Alex's blog.
Maid Katie says
Thank you for sharing Mistress. This is how my Mistress evolved her way of developing me.
None of it happened at once – there were gradual steps taken, I have been caged 24/7 for a number of years let out on birthdays, wedding anniversary and Xmas days. The use of strap on, paddles, leg spreaders, hog-ties, penis gags etc were all introduced over a period of time so their use fits Mistresses moods.
I wish you well in developing your sissy the way you want to. I’m sure she will be very grateful for the attention even though there is likely to be some whimpers ! Lucky girl
Maid katie
In this interview Lady Alexa shares her views on Feminisation. Thank you to Lady Alexa for taking the time to share her opinions on Feminisation in Female Led Relationships.
Q. How did you first discover you were interested in a Female Led Dynamic?
I have always liked being in charge in my relationships. I didn’t associate them as a Female Led dynamic, just the way I was and through the internet that we found a name for it, FLR
Q. How did you discover your desire for feminisation?
I like to push boundaries and break social rules. I wanted my husband to wear some feminine articles to spice things up in bed. It took some courage to ask him. It escalated from there as I wanted to keep pushing on.
Q. There are men who want to serve and submit, and there are men that wish to simply cross-dress, then there are feminised men in a FLR. How do you differentiate between the three desires?
The idea of men who want to serve and submit is a complex question. Some want it as a game or a release from their male responsibilities, others are more submissive and others, such as my husband, are neither naturally submissive nor need release from responsibilities but just enjoy a strong woman. I don’t know any men who are simply crossdressers without other element involved such as – fantasy, fetish, FLR, femdom, transgender or whatever.
Q. Who typically initiates a Feminised FLR?
In our case it was me and although I’m not unique in this, this seems to be less common. There are so many benefits, in my opinion, to feminising a man. Everything from being more attractive to be more gentle and helpful
Q. Could you share a little of your dynamic, the life you have built with your husband?
Other than the FLR and feminisation element, we do live very normal lives. That said, my preference even so would be to be more public, and I have broached this idea gently several times with my husband. I would like him to live as a female by outer appearances full time
I no longer use my husband’s male name or male gender although in public I revert to dear or darling. Otherwise, I will call her Alice or more often girl or girly. I also use princess or petal or flower or other feminine names. I do this outside the home too although not directly in front of others. In conversations in the street of coffee shops or shops yes. She refers to me as Mistress Alexa or Madam
We enjoy the disparity in levels in the relationship and the naming helps that. This applies to clothing too. At home I’ll wear normal female clothing, including trousers if I wish. Alice is not permitted male clothing at home or even female trousers and uses more feminine and revealing clothing, such as pretty miniskirts or short summer dresses. The more girly the better. I also ask her to be naked or exposed at home when the weather permits it. I like this too as it’s a great power play for me
Alice makes the tea and coffee at home and makes and clears the table at mealtimes. She will curtsey when serving me anything. I am in charge of things. Finally, I can’t deny that our lifestyle has a strong frisson of sexual excitement about it. I get off on the power and Alice on the humiliation and submission. This keeps things fresh, and I love to think up new humiliations for her.
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lets close with some t-girls who'd make delightful wives...
be well sisturs, peace, alyssa
adore this post xxx
like the post alyssa 😘 happy holidays