in Her world males are to be controlled and guided....putting Her leashed slave on display will only deepen his submission.... the numerous females bemused as the male in emasculating fishnet-tights is being shamed made to wear his Mistress's collar in a public setting ...it will strengten his belief that Women are superior...
from the Folsum Street fair in San Fransisco take note of how the majority of parade-goers are Women. it is an example of a Dominatrix imprinting Her imprematuer further breaking down barriors in mainstream society...
taken as a whole the Dominatrix BDSM community have a confidence about themselves and who they are and what they do. Simply put they know what makes men tick....
and how to control them....that usually begins with their libido... with chastity, She has complete control. few men understand just how much control when She is the keyholder...it quickly dawns on them... they'll realize even being allowed to feel an erection is a priviege...
under Her rule he'll learn erections are in and of themselves a reward... and they will become almost as a rare as an orgasm... His sex life has been surrendered to Her.... while She has diminished the male phallus to a mere tool for Her sexual gratification... the message to him is clear... 'i dont need your's when i can simply put a strap-on to your face.'
instead of male aggression his dememanor is replaced with a passive acceptance watching as Her vagina lowers and rises and lowers while his own cock remains locked....
note the Women...both behind the Mistress and next to Her. They've each captured the image on their phone's camera.
let's talk Femdom integrating into mainstream society for a moment... there literally are books that help guide relationships with the Woman being in control...
the days of the man being the primary decision maker with a docile wife having no say are over.
combining the two categories had Women involed in deciding 75% of the time.
it’s the woman and not the man who has the last word when purchasing big-ticket items for the home....By nearly 2-1, women say they and not their husbands control the family pursestrings (45% vs. 23%)By about 2-1, women say they and not their partner decide how the couple will spend weekend time together (30% vs.14%) and decide on major home purchases (33% vs. 17%).
Significantly, in a large plurality of couples – 43% – men don’t have the final say in any of the areas tested. These men defer to women. There are significantly fewer couples – 33% – in which the woman does not take the lead
research reports that women who earn more than their husband are more likely to be in control of decisions in the household...The higher a woman’s level of education relative to the level of education of her male partner, the more likely it is that she is the primary decision maker.
putting it through the filter of a Woman transitioning Her man this guidebook parallels many tactics and rituals and rules that will help create a Mistress's obedient t-girl...
Ladies, it’s 2023, and if you’re not already running the show in your relationship, you’re missing out! Gone are the days when the most significant decision we made was whether to wear heels or flats. Today, women are conquering the corporate world, leading nations, and deciding whether John’s night with the guys is on or off. Welcome to the world of female-led relationships.
ways to exert control over his social life:
Advance Notice: Require that he provides you with an advance notice (like 48 hours) before committing to any social engagement. This gives you ample time to approve, modify, or decline the plan.
Shared Calendar: Implement a shared calendar system where he has to input all potential social engagements, allowing you to approve, decline, or suggest changes.
Veto Power: You have the ultimate decision-making power. You can use this to veto any social engagements you deem unfit or interfere with your plans.
Check-In Times: Require him to check in with you at specific times during his social engagements. This allows you to maintain control, even when not physically present.
Permission Requests: He should seek your permission for the location, time, and people involved in the social event. You can approve or suggest changes based on your preference.
Assign Tasks: Before he leaves for social engagements, assign tasks to complete, such as household chores, or have him prepare something for when you both return home (like a meal or a bath).
Dominating your husband’s social life – Shaping his social life.
Approval of Friends: In FLRs the dominant partner has approval rights over her partner’s friends. This could mean that if her partner meets someone new and wishes to spend time with them, he must first introduce them to his dominant partner for her approval.
Control over Schedule: The dominant partner should control her partner’s schedule, deciding when he sees his friends, how often, and for how long. Ween him off old friends who you deem are a bad influence. Let your friends become his friends. Encourage him to find others who are also transitioning.
Control over Activities: The dominant partner might also control the types of activities her partner engages in socially. Make sure he always lets you know where he is at all times.
Approval of Social Events: Before committing to any social events, he must ask for her approval. This includes providing all the details about the event.
The benefits of managing his time.
In a female-led relationship (FLR) where the woman takes a dominant role over a man’s spare time, there can be several benefits for the woman.
Cultivation of Desired Qualities: If the woman wishes to encourage or cultivate certain habits or qualities in the man, having a say in how he spends his spare time can be beneficial.
Strengthening the FLR Dynamic: Dominating his spare time can reinforce the dynamics of the relationship, constantly reminding both of their roles keeping the relationship aligned with its core principles.
Increased Appreciation and Gratitude: When a man willingly submits to his transitioning it can lead to heightened appreciation and gratitude towards the woman for her guidance and direction.
Enhanced Communication: The need to discuss, negotiate, and communicate about time spent ensures regular check-ins and conversations.
Serving his Goddess – your t-girl uses her spare time to worship, pamper and otherwise spend quality time with you. A goddess deserves worship. Ensure you’ve allocated enough time in her busy schedule to bask in your glory..... peace, alyssa
bonus pic: for tara...
thanks alyssa that's a big back wheel 🤣😘