in some ways its difficult to believe they ever lived exclusively as male's at one time.....
i'll admit it....while on this forum i tend to 'over-sexualize' the experience of transitioning... there is a reason for that i will address later on...
one fact remains true: it is because of Dominatrix Camille ...that together we have come as far as we have.
the issue of transitioning has moved out of the shadows... the days of being arrested for expressing the woman-within have ended...
the scarlet letter of being trans continues to diminish ...though there still are the 'haters' out there who will never 'get it' and continue looking at sexuality as strictly binary and is not on a spectrum...
t-girl conferences have become common...
something called 'Pinkfest' ...in Chicago no less....
a t-girl who keeps an eye on issues, institutions and people that seek to clawback hard earned trans-rights...
from a site called Medium i recently joined...i would describe it as rational discussions of topics an issues of the 'day'.
anonymous random quotes from those who are transitioning:
The tagline i'm still the same person i've always been' had become my mantra. I was hoping this would put my family and friends at ease, and me along with them because the sad truth was I was feeling lost.
... I was surprised how much I changed over the next two years. While my basic personality and my likes/dislikes stayed fairly consistent, what has changed is a newly developed emotional acuity that allows for far more meaningful and deeper connections with my own feelings and other people. Another unexpected change is my sexuality. I feel like I can fall in love with anyone I please
This time the club that hit me was gender dysphoria. Essentially, gender dysphoria is an alarm that gets louder inside your head the longer you neglect it. It is telling you something is wrong in your body. There is a conflict between the biological body you were born with and the wiring of your gender in your brain.
i experienced. frightening period when my egg cacked and i knew there was no staying in my shell to protect me any longer from the unknown of gender transition and becoming who i was meant to be all along.
I can tell you, after years of battle against gender dysphoria, I lost. I could not deny my gender conflict. If I did, it would kill me. Sorry, all you transgender deniers out there, I am here to tell you that I exist against my Herculean effort to prove I don’t.
Once I accepted my reality, I started on female hormone therapy. My endocrinologist told me that she felt that my body was acting like it was waiting a lifetime for the right hormones.
I love having breasts and now I find I like showing them off in public…but with clothes on. I feel that breasts are more dramatic by not being naked. I love playing with display options. Bras and blouses offer so many choices.
My mind leads me to one place, one thought. Authenticity. Definition of Authentic. Of undisputed origin. Genuine. Real.Genuine? Being true to myself. I know I’m a woman, even if it took me sixty years to figure it out. I know I’ve always been a woman, even though I was raised and socialized as a male
do you know one of the reasons why t-girls drift to the erotic industry?... a primary reason is they cant find normal jobs in the private sector
there are those t-girls that have embraced erotic and as a result of social media sites they have become wealthy and have acquired tons of followers....
i spoke of grooming and adapting to the lifestyle earlier....
if i can say this in a positive light ...we come to a Dominatrix 'wanting' to be groomed....there is something inside our psycholigical makeup that speaks to a need to be dominated by a Woman of power....we need Her to help us become someone else... and by that i mean a t-girl...
Dominatrix Camille is up front about it...there is no coersion on Her part....She offers a method to become what we often secretly have always wanted... a lovely t-girl...with a gentle yielding feminine nature...
the Dominatrix...experts in the field of psychological training...you will become the Woman you've always desired to be...yet as it should be... it will be on Her terms....
the former male groomed by her Mistress into becoming a 'girly gurl'...
grooming happens with developing trust in your Dominatrix... you find yourself letting go...giving full control over your life to Her... look at the gurls face....being pulled out to sea the transformation in process she loves what's happening to her...
a t-girl comes to discover the demands of femininity taking over...
grooming breaks down once cherished male beliefs...
being groomed your boundaries will be pushed...
yet there is a benefit moving past your limits...you'll find your femininity has made you into something quite pretty....
you know you've been groomed when you find you can't live without Mistress being in your life...you realize your body is becoming more feminine...and you want it to keep changing even more...
not only are you dependent on Mistress ...you're dependent on the female hormones...
when we say groomed what do we mean? ....
lets examine 2 former males...who have been brought along in the process of becoming authentic t-girls.
one is captured in pigtails and petticoats...shall we call it the 'little girl effect' ...in need of the Female authority figures...while treated as an adolescent...
she's been accepted for what she is...a lovely thing who wants nothing more than to serve Women...
that feeling that only comes with being penetrated...
the look on her pretty face is sincere...she no longer considers herself to be a man... rather she's been groomed into an obedient t-girl with the body to go with...
the frilly panties so fun to wear....fulfilling her role as a pretty plaything...and yes....her breasts are real...
having her nipples sucked she can truly say she has become 'one of the gurls'.....
there was a time when makeup wasn't needed...of course that was before she was groomed to develop the feminine breasts and lengthening hair...it means taking on the extra layer of functionality maintaining beauty demands...
no i'm afraid she won't be taken serious in a business setting...besdes statistics show Women her age are filling those positions....though she is wonderful doing domestic chores...
as for the other gurl... she too has been groomed and belongs to her Mistress now... one can see it in her eyes....she'll do what her Mistress asks of her...
her Mistress inspires her...enough to have the floral tattoo ink-stained on..along with one that declares she's transgendered...thanks to her Dominatrix...
she's learned so much from Mistress...and continues to.
the choker with a bell a reminder what she is doing and where she is....is under constant scrutiny .... it's all up to Mistress...
a bond between them develops being groomed by a Mistress...it comes with a strong sense of admiration for the Dominatrix that has brought her to live in a gurls world... her hair style is done and maintained at a beauty salon...the same with having her eyebrows tweaked and given the feminine contour... it is a testament of how deep her commitment is to becoming pretty enough to be fucked by a dominant....
the curtsey an acknowledgement of Female superiority...and also of how much she has been groomed to respond as a lovely young lady...
it's up to the Mistresses who they choose to shag...
Her gurl in red patiently waits hoping she'll be the one selected...
it's a talent of a Dominatrix... to take a male phallus and make it Her own...
they feel so submissive presenting their pretty bottoms... keeping them on display...
the Dominatrix has made Her selection...yet first will come an assesment of how well Her gurl can suck a strap-on cock...
the tug of the bra strap over another feminine tattoo...with a level of diligent focus...her technigue has been honed over the months her Mistress was grooming her...
like so many others...they've joined an expanding community of t-gurls...
the group of Dominatrices are proud of what they have created... whether groomed or not every t-girl that comes out makes the world just a little bit more feminine...peace, alyssa
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another great post alyssa particularly liked this one 😘