wanting to do something that would help me adjust or perhaps better lay the ground work to coming out i visited part of the far north side of the city i live near. there is an enclave for the gay/lgbtq community there.
a joint restaurant-bar called ‘Big Chicks’ and its sister spot a cute Café called Tweets both are popular hang outs that provide a safe environment for many including those like me who are new to coming out.
I spoke for a while with a nice 30-ish boi and we discussed many things including being trans and coming out and interacting with the gay community. He was nice enough to give me a copy of a local mag that has lgbtq friendly businesses, beauty salons etc.
Going to a half dozen shops I also looked in to getting tattoo’s and found one that likely will be the one. some of the pictures i took are helping me fine tune the process. the nieghborhood has a wonderful female centric bookstore--Women and children first. staffed by Lesbian's and trans gurls that were very helpful I bought a couple of books with one being on trans to help a gurl better understand the history of transitioning.
it was just a simple afternoon out and about yet it helped add to what the future holds for alyssa under the guidance of Mistress DLC. the first thing (right after slipping into my bra n panties and stayups n heels) i wanted to do getting home was tell my Mistress