'a luxury attained becomes a necessity'...the expression would seem to apply to habits as well. under Dominatrix Camille i've acquired many a habit that has become part of the journey along my feminine arc.
Misatress DLC has brought a discipline to Her gurl alyssa that was previously absent...

the Woman has known that habits are so often first formed at home...in that secret space where they can be practiced alone...until they become ingrained into my mind as a routine...

habits like ...posing...comfortable in my feminine appearance...sometimes in the nude...part of the arc of femininity the habit of keeping my body smooth and hairless is now a regular aspect of my grooming regimen...

what i like among many things about Mistress is ...that she sees the big picture on our path to the Lady pond...She wants us to see ourselves as 'one of the girls'...the habit well established by now alyssa is quite comfortable having 'girl-talk' amongst my DLC sisters and other t-girls...from makeup and clothing to issues of the day...some of which concerns t-girl sexuality and interests...

growing ever closer we chat among each other so much these days....it would be fun to pose with the other DLC gurls like these lovelies...

now such a delightful habit....alyssa has grown so used to wearing stockings and high heels...

another habit is out shopping for women's clothing...small steps of progress wearing cami's, tights and panties in boi-wear i look forward to doing this completely in femme t-girl mode...

last spring i bought a bathing suit...i'm going to say that again..alyssa purchased a women's 2 piece bikini...tho not outside yet wearing it around the house made me feel more at ease being in it.... i'm just going to say it...alyssa has a thing about acquiring a woman's tan-lines one day....that is surely on the feminine arc...

DLC's alesandra has a talent for it... i'm reminded she had spoken recently on how to improve on posing pretty....i welcomed her information and tips... at first totally nervous taking pictures...and sending them on to Mistress alyssa has accepted it is part of being seen as a t-girl...by that i mean...getting comfortable with who i am and i look. i've found posing in a girlish manner has brought out the woman within me the more i do it...

....that's the point ...it is a habit now....a gurlish habit...something that us girls do all the time now...

let's look at the checkmarks of posing...heels a must...pretty hair...pierced ears...hoop earrings...makeup on...legs crossed at the knees...nice erect posture...below my colored lips and neckline...i know the chest contour is being presented for what they are...developing breasts...hands passively resting in my lap such a common thing a woman does...in some ways it conveys a gentle weakness...a lovely tapered look to my eyebrows providing feminine definition...
woman pose in a limited way... they don't spread out...what do they call the pejorative neologism term with legs apart these days...ahhh yes 'man-spreading'...instead a woman stays self-contained making the most of the smaller space...she knows her feminine energy will still have men staring at her...it's one of the many reasons women are superior...

as we take a look at t-girls comfortable or casual in posing... let's remember all had a starting point...before they refined their image.



lovely mickey...she welcomed alyssa becoming an admirer of her's on tvChix...













here is a pretty t-girl living an authentic life complete with HRT...a casual comfortable look about her...lets see what she looked like when she was first married....then at her vow renewals...having acquired a thinner figure


another habit alyssa has is the 'fact' that she has turned her life over to a superior Woman... Dominatrix Camille....reinforced over not weeks or months but years...3 to be exact... i am Her obedient pet of a t-girl....i can't think of any time i haven't done what She has asked...

we'll finish with some inspiration along the feminine arc...



have a wonderful day!!!....peace, alyssa...and yes the one below is a t-girl

It is those seemingly 'little' alterations to behaviour and posture that actually make the real differences, as you say crossing legs and so on...even only going to the toilet sat down...all about stripping away the 'bad' habits to reveal the true woman underneath that's been waiting to come out.